Victim's ex-partner got "appropriate treatment" but families should have been involved, report says.
They have been asked to pay £150 each, which includes a three-night stay in a "little holiday resort".
The collection, including snaps of Dame Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, will go under the hammer in Derbyshire.
Men from Derbyshire were caught in what remains England's worst mining disaster
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